As I stated last week, how you define success for yourself is going to directly influence how successful you feel. This feeling comes down to taking the focus off the result itself, and honing in on the actions you are taking toward the result you desire. What goals you set for yourself are essential for maintaining that focus, perseverance, and most importantly, your self-confidence. In doing this it is important to create reasonable criterion for success for whatever you are looking to improve on.

Last week I shared this video on my Facebook page and asked the question: What makes a man attractive to a woman? Some folks wondered what I was getting at by posting this video, so I’ll explain further.